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New Beginnings with the Same Person

Posted By : Administrator Wednesday 15 Feb, 2017
New Beginnings with the Same Person

New beginnings are always a bit scary, exciting, filled with hope, happiness and excitement. The interesting part is new beginnings don’t necessarily have to be with new people. New beginnings can be a fresh start for those still embedded in boring relationships, dysfunctional relationships, unhappy relationships, tumultuous relationships or simply…relationships that are seemingly over!

So many people in “dead marriages”, “disconnected relationships” feel the heaviness of their reality and are filled with yearning and longing for a “what was”, or a “I wish it could be different”. Well, it can!! It’s only when you identify the real problem and seek to finding solutions can amazing new beginnings manifest. They say stupidity is doing the same things and expecting different results. For new beginnings, there has to be positive change. Power play, indifference or an attempt to change equations that further cause imbalances do not herald positive new beginnings.

The most obvious question is why would you want a new beginning with someone with whom a relationship is/was bad or boring in the first place?

The answer to that is:

1) if you cannot exit the relationship, then it’s in everyone’s interest to work towards making it a good relationship.

2) if you are able to exit the relationship but can look deep into their eyes and feel nothing but deep love and deep longing, there’s hope.

Love makes people do the strangest things, the nicest things, the most decent things, the most bizarre things. It also helps heal. It helps conquer fears, trauma’s and destructive patterns. Every relationship has fights. Every couple goes through the throes of anguish and hurt. You also, have to learn to let go for new beginnings to truly be new. Going on like broken record of how broken things are, solves nothing. Holding on to what went wrong only amplifies it. Discuss it, solve it, release it. Happy new beginnings to all those who seek one!


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